SBRBN Royalty

[00:00:03] Speaker A: Hey everybody. Welcome back to the royalty room. Today we're doing things a little bit differently and we gonna call this suburban royalty because we got a special guest. But I'm gonna introduce everybody. In turn, we have my one and only amazing, phenomenal, best rapper in LA that I happen to manage, Air the Prophecy. Okay. Yes sir, in the building. How you feeling? [00:00:27] Speaker B: Great. I. I didn't know what I signed up for, but we're gonna get busy. [00:00:31] Speaker A: Well, when you messing around with the the legal queen, you never know. And we have for the second time, Ms. Seneja, our almost sent to be therapist. [00:00:45] Speaker C: Fighting for my life out here. [00:00:46] Speaker A: Girl, I'm so proud of you. We'll talk about that soon. And the suburban element, Mr. Suburban LA himself. Scottie not pimping. [00:00:56] Speaker D: That's crazy. Why am I not pimping? [00:00:58] Speaker A: I meant to say Scottie not pimping. [00:01:00] Speaker D: You took my pimp degree. [00:01:01] Speaker A: I meant to say Scottie not pimping, but it just came out how it wanted to come out. [00:01:05] Speaker D: Yes, I'm in the building. I'm feeling good, feeling sexy. Blessed, highly favored. [00:01:11] Speaker A: Had to throw sexy in there. [00:01:14] Speaker D: Had to, you know? Yeah, no, for sure. Why not? You feel the aura, you know? Uh huh. [00:01:19] Speaker C: It's gonna be an interesting thing. I'm gonna say that. I'm gonna just say that I feel. [00:01:23] Speaker D: Like we have the same aura. Like we walk in and it kind of shift rooms, you know what I'm saying? [00:01:27] Speaker C: You have that same world in fact. [00:01:30] Speaker A: Yeah, I like that. I feel like, I feel like every. [00:01:32] Speaker C: Time Ashley walks in the room, I feel that way. [00:01:34] Speaker D: Yes. [00:01:35] Speaker C: My heart flutters a little when she walked in the room. So I felt that. [00:01:37] Speaker A: Don't make me blush on my show. So Eddie, it was girls crazy. Anyways, so I don't know how much y'all know about Scotty, but he is a self proclaimed, soon to be disproven Espresso Martini King. [00:01:52] Speaker D: I am the Espresso Martini King. [00:01:54] Speaker A: Isn't that like in your bio or something? [00:01:56] Speaker D: It was my name on Instagram for a minute. I end up changing it. [00:02:00] Speaker A: Yeah, so, so now has a problem with that? [00:02:02] Speaker C: No, no, I don't have a problem with that. I just heard. [00:02:04] Speaker D: Is this the Beef? [00:02:04] Speaker C: No. [00:02:05] Speaker A: Yeah, this is. [00:02:06] Speaker C: No, it's not beef. I just heard that. It's Beef like espresso Martinis as much as I do and I appreciate. [00:02:11] Speaker A: Wait, cue the phone case soft. [00:02:16] Speaker C: And I appreciate that we get a. [00:02:17] Speaker A: Close up on that one. [00:02:17] Speaker C: But that's why when we were talking about this, I was like, I need to see. You know how when you go somewhere and you order your espresso martini make. [00:02:24] Speaker A: All types of ways and they usually it up. [00:02:26] Speaker C: We were talking about. And I was like, as an espresso martini connoisseur. And I feel like you. [00:02:32] Speaker D: You're a connoisseur. [00:02:33] Speaker C: Hell yeah. [00:02:35] Speaker A: Yeah. How do you so air has no idea. Like, he don't even. He don't even get it. [00:02:40] Speaker C: When I met you, when we talked about this, I was like, that's crazy, cuz, like, this is a lifestyle. Yeah. Like. And I was like, all right. [00:02:46] Speaker D: Did we talk about that when we met? [00:02:48] Speaker C: That for like two minutes. But I was talking to Ashley and I was like, okay, so I need to see how everybody makes their espresso martini. Because really like it all types of ways. Cuz we were talking about it and she was like, I made her one. And she was like, I need more sugar, more sweet, more whipped cream. Like she. [00:03:03] Speaker A: Like she put straight vodka. All I tasted was rubbing alcohol. [00:03:08] Speaker C: So she just likes. No, she. She likes Bailey's or no vodka. And I'm like, so. So then we started talking about it and I was like, everybody likes their espresso martini differently. [00:03:17] Speaker D: Do. Do you do yours only with vodka? [00:03:19] Speaker C: I do vodka or tequila. [00:03:21] Speaker D: What about rum? [00:03:22] Speaker C: I'm down with whatever. With the liquor. With the liquor. I'm not picky. [00:03:25] Speaker B: That's what really changes it. [00:03:26] Speaker C: Make it rum and Bailey's. [00:03:28] Speaker B: It hit. [00:03:29] Speaker A: I got robbed. [00:03:29] Speaker C: I want Kahlua and I want Bailey's. [00:03:33] Speaker D: Can we have a moment? Because I know when I said rum, that fucked her head up. [00:03:35] Speaker C: No, it didn't. [00:03:36] Speaker D: I know. Yeah, come on. Yes, it did. [00:03:37] Speaker C: No, it did not. From Brooklyn. I've been drinking rum since I was. [00:03:39] Speaker A: I'm drinking rum, Okay. [00:03:41] Speaker D: I typically get my espresso martinis Scotty's way. [00:03:45] Speaker C: Okay, so tell me what that is. [00:03:46] Speaker D: That's three shots worth of 1942. [00:03:49] Speaker A: Okay. [00:03:49] Speaker C: Oh, on your bougie. All right. [00:03:51] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:03:51] Speaker A: Sorry, we're messing with Tito. [00:03:54] Speaker C: On top of. On top of the liquor, I usually just put espresso and then I put Kahlua and I add a shot of Bailey's because I like my shit with a little bit of Bailey's in it, okay? Some people hate that shit. So that's why I want to know how you make yours. And that's why we have all this here today. [00:04:07] Speaker A: We gonna find out. [00:04:09] Speaker C: I mean around and find out. Everybody likes their espresso martinis. [00:04:12] Speaker A: And then also I brought like super random stuff. So feel free to like use Whatever. Like, we have, like, stuff to dip the. The rim in and all types of everything. Unfortunately, there is no actual espresso, but this is espresso flavored Baileys and this is iced coffee. So we're going to get it together. [00:04:31] Speaker D: But. [00:04:33] Speaker A: But before we start, you said you wanted me to do mine first. [00:04:37] Speaker C: Yeah, I didn't see how you make your espresso martini because we talked about this the other day and I was like, like, got it. [00:04:41] Speaker A: Yeah, we'll do that. But first I want to talk a little bit about suburban. [00:04:46] Speaker D: Let's do it. [00:04:47] Speaker A: You've been around on the Internet for a while. [00:04:51] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:04:51] Speaker A: But I feel like you've only just recently been like, hey, guys, I'm suburban. And I feel like once that happened and you kind of. You started your podcast and you started, like, coming to the forefront. I feel like there's been, like, a lot of, like, just shit talking and, like, just coming for your neck at all. [00:05:11] Speaker D: Yeah, for sure, for sure. [00:05:13] Speaker A: Like, what. What is that? How do you feel about that? [00:05:18] Speaker D: I don't know, bro. I used to. It's crazy because I used to think, like, in my mind, I'm like, on some Jay Z shit. Of course, you know, as I'm like, you know, creating my image and like, just like, yeah, I'm looking up to these people. And then this is like my online Persona, or the perception has become like this, like, academics type of person. Like, people find out who, they're like, oh, I thought you were, like, fat. Or just. They just think that I'm like, I don't know. I. I really don't know. I can't call it. But I do think that, you know what, I'll say this. And I always bring up Dave Portnoy a lot because I. I mimic, and he's one of the people I study in this media space. And he is, like, just online. Like a hated person. [00:06:00] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:06:01] Speaker D: And so I think maybe just subconsciously just mimicking some of those ways. Like, I'm just kind of embodying that and people would just be hating online, I guess. I don't know. In person, if you love, though, like, I've never get. No, I've gotten, like, two people in person who've come up to me and said some weird shit. But for the most people, like, people love me. Like, I feel like I'm a dope person. [00:06:20] Speaker C: Why do. Why do you think people hate Dave Portnoy? Since you're making the comparison? [00:06:25] Speaker D: That's a great question. You should do this more. Thank you. [00:06:29] Speaker A: She is A therapist. [00:06:30] Speaker D: It's. I don't know, I think it's. Cause he's like, brash. Just a little brash. And I think sometimes I could be like, transparent. [00:06:36] Speaker A: Just. [00:06:36] Speaker D: See, Abrasive. Yeah. Pretty candid. You know what I mean? And then, like, I think one of the things I know that I do, that he does, is like, we might be dead wrong, but we just double down. And then they'd be like, you're wrong. [00:06:48] Speaker A: Chest. [00:06:49] Speaker D: Yeah, I double down, then I four times down, then I 16 times down. And it's just like. It doubles up even when you figure. [00:06:55] Speaker C: You fact checked it and it was wrong and it was like. But I'm gonna still say it again louder. [00:06:58] Speaker D: Yeah, but I also. If I'm. I believe it, though. If I'm wrong, I hear you. I might sound wrong, but I'm wrong in your beliefs. Yeah, I'll be believing. [00:07:04] Speaker B: I'd be right. [00:07:05] Speaker D: That's the. [00:07:06] Speaker A: Anyways, so here. [00:07:08] Speaker D: That's probably what I hate. I'll be right though a lot. [00:07:10] Speaker A: Let me ask you this. You're from la? [00:07:12] Speaker D: I am. I'm from South Central. [00:07:13] Speaker C: Okay. [00:07:14] Speaker A: You're not from the ie? [00:07:15] Speaker D: No, I live in the I though. [00:07:17] Speaker A: You live in. Okay. Because I. I see. I see people coming for you a lot because you're quote, unquote, from the ie. [00:07:23] Speaker D: Yeah, no, I'm not from the I. I was born and raised in south central. [00:07:26] Speaker A: Okay. [00:07:26] Speaker D: 100%. The crazy thing is, yeah, at some point, like, I start showing my face and then I don't. LA is just a. The men in LA are like, they can be stupid. People can. [00:07:39] Speaker C: Don't even look at me because it's. [00:07:42] Speaker A: Like I start to start talking. [00:07:45] Speaker D: Are you from la? [00:07:45] Speaker B: I'm from la. Yeah. [00:07:47] Speaker D: Maybe you could attest. Maybe. Don't. Don't get behind me on this. No, but. So what happened was that this dude was like, who is this nigga? Like, I ain't never seen him before. And that's just like what niggas in LA did. If they ain't never seen you, then you can't be from here. Which is weird. [00:07:59] Speaker A: But meanwhile, your entire platform been around for what, how many years? [00:08:03] Speaker D: I've been doing this shit since 2012. [00:08:06] Speaker A: My point. [00:08:07] Speaker B: @ what point when you started showing your face, were you already in the ie? [00:08:11] Speaker D: I moved to I, like, two years ago, and I've probably been showing my face for like maybe three years. I mean, listen, I had a podcast. I did, and I was interviewing. I interviewed Rascaz, I interviewed Kalen. For real, for Real. And I was like, five years ago. [00:08:25] Speaker B: Okay. [00:08:25] Speaker D: You know what I'm saying? I just was not. I was half assed with it, and I was inconsistent. [00:08:28] Speaker B: Yeah, I feel like the thing is too, because I remember, like, when I was really getting, like, stuff bubbling, and I had got my first write up on Hip Hop dx and then they said, representing the west coast. And the first comment said, who the hell is this nigga representing the West? [00:08:42] Speaker A: Like, there's not like 12 billion people, right? [00:08:45] Speaker B: So, like, people automatically or on the west coast, you got to be on already to say something like that. And I think that's where I come from. Like, people ought to. Like, I've never seen him, and it's like, your neighbor could have saw me, like, you know what I mean? [00:08:55] Speaker A: Right? That and you know what? I just seen Eke. He just got signed as the first west coast artist on Quality Control. [00:09:04] Speaker C: I seen you post. I seen you post Ghetto. [00:09:08] Speaker A: Oh, so that song is Eke and True Car. Yeah, yeah, and Quality Control P and Coach K came and. And snatched him up, and he is now signed to Obvious, obviously, Atlanta label qc, and probably everyone on the east coast is like, who the is this? [00:09:29] Speaker C: Yeah, bro. You know, people being signed. I seen the. You posted about Jello. [00:09:34] Speaker A: Oh, my God. Listen, I had to swerve in the corner. Whoa, whoa, listen, don't bring Tati in here, because that is my. [00:09:42] Speaker C: No, because if Tatiana was here right now, she would have you already. [00:09:45] Speaker A: Whoa. [00:09:46] Speaker C: All the microphones and put them together. [00:09:48] Speaker A: Just to say that line, that that's my song. But, like, should he have got. Let's ask. Let's ask the artist. Let's ask the rapper. [00:09:54] Speaker C: How you feel about this? Personally, man, I got an opinion about that. [00:09:58] Speaker B: I don't. I don't really hate it. [00:09:59] Speaker A: I think, like, you fuck with the song. [00:10:02] Speaker B: I heard it one time. I don't know. [00:10:04] Speaker C: My thing is there, so I can't say. [00:10:06] Speaker B: I can't say I rock with it. [00:10:07] Speaker A: But do you fuck with the idea that he put out one song and now he has an $8 million deal? [00:10:11] Speaker C: Yeah, that's not. [00:10:12] Speaker B: A lot of people do that. [00:10:13] Speaker A: I feel. I feel like this is synonymous to Kim Kardashian buying her way into being an attorney. [00:10:21] Speaker C: I agree with you in the sense that there are people who have come before this. Well, I think are far more talented, but in far more work. We didn't get anything like this record deal and full music control. That deserved it. Yeah, this shit's a little bit of, like, a good slap in the Face. But at the end of the day, it's like the way should be going. Yeah, I'd be looking, I'd be waking up like, is this for real? Am I in the office all of the time? [00:10:44] Speaker A: Blood, sweat, tears and money that we have put into his career, like, where's our eight million dollar deal? [00:10:51] Speaker C: That's what I'm saying. [00:10:51] Speaker A: How about that? [00:10:52] Speaker C: But the song, I felt that the song is good, but it ain't that crazy. It's not rock. [00:10:57] Speaker A: We don't. And we don't know what's gonna come. [00:10:58] Speaker B: From it, mind you. Like, he could have sat in that meeting, played them like three, four records. [00:11:02] Speaker A: They're like, oh, and we don't know. [00:11:03] Speaker B: So, like, they like, all right, yeah, and they're popping. [00:11:05] Speaker A: But there's people. There's people who've been working 10, 15, 20 years. Like my best friend Elijah Banks. He been in the studio every single day of this year. It is, what, the two, three weeks in. Every single day. Jello been in the studio every single day. [00:11:21] Speaker C: No, I mean, he wasn't even in. [00:11:23] Speaker A: The gym every single day. [00:11:24] Speaker D: I think that's crazy. That's a low blood. I think. I think that the deal was already in place because the song broke off of a streamer. He was on a streamer's platform. I think they already had the deal locked and loaded. They already had a song. I think they just. I think it was a market employee the whole time. And they just put him on that streamers thing. It worked. [00:11:46] Speaker C: They killed that. [00:11:47] Speaker D: Because now you look at. He's on. He's on Rolling Loud now. [00:11:50] Speaker C: And it's like, that's, that's crazy. [00:11:53] Speaker D: It's like too orchestrated. [00:11:54] Speaker C: But that's not insane to you. [00:11:56] Speaker A: It came out and then like, you. The song came out and everything happened and then like a week later, they dropped the line a little. [00:12:04] Speaker D: He's famous as hell. [00:12:05] Speaker C: Yeah, but. But the performance. What's the performance going to be like? [00:12:08] Speaker D: I can see. [00:12:11] Speaker A: I cannot wait to go to Rolling Loud and see what he does. [00:12:14] Speaker C: I'm not even hitting. [00:12:15] Speaker D: I'm pissed because I'm like. I mean, I'm not clubbing right now, but I want to hear that in the club. I do want to hear that. [00:12:20] Speaker A: Me too. [00:12:20] Speaker C: Because you know, they're going. [00:12:21] Speaker A: As soon as they busting that shit. [00:12:23] Speaker D: Hot as fuck, Shout out dj socially. They was playing the last night in Dee Dee. And I'm looking at the store, I'm like, fuck, I want to go. I want to feel that. [00:12:30] Speaker C: Can we talk about How Dee Dee is a new thing, but. [00:12:32] Speaker A: Okay, shout out to Twan, because he really did that and does everything. [00:12:37] Speaker C: I'm old now. [00:12:38] Speaker A: About last night. [00:12:39] Speaker C: About. [00:12:39] Speaker A: About last night is the name of the event. It is one of the best events that I'm taking. [00:12:45] Speaker C: Got to show how to make this martini. [00:12:47] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, yeah. [00:12:47] Speaker D: I'm taking 50%. No, that's a lot. I'm taking 30% of the reason why Didi is cracking. [00:12:53] Speaker C: Okay, so can you tell me about Diddy while she. Tell her how to make her espresso martini? Because I need to know. [00:12:57] Speaker D: Didi is. [00:12:58] Speaker C: I took a break from going out, so, no, this shit popped up. [00:13:01] Speaker D: Twine. And there's. There's somebody else who's back in it who actually doesn't want to be known, so I won't say his name. [00:13:07] Speaker C: So if somebody didn't know what it was at all, I. I E Me, because I don't know what the. We're talking about. How would you explain it? [00:13:11] Speaker D: It's just like the popping spot right now. Like in la, I'm pretty sure. Same in Brooklyn. Like, the popping spot where all the. Like, the who's. Who's the creatives. You know what I'm saying? Like, they rotate. So how highlight room people would go on Wednesdays. [00:13:25] Speaker C: Right. [00:13:25] Speaker D: Right now it's Dee Dee at one point. [00:13:28] Speaker C: It's not like Delilah. [00:13:30] Speaker A: It is kind of like a Delilah. [00:13:32] Speaker C: Because Highlight and Delilah are two different things. Like highlights. Like a club. Delilah is more of, like. [00:13:36] Speaker D: It's like a delight. It's like a lounge. It's more like a lounge. [00:13:38] Speaker C: But it's not like a Soho House. [00:13:40] Speaker D: No, it's not a Soho. It's a restaurant. It's like a very small restaurant. But the main thing about it is it's the spot right now that people are going to. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. I mean, DJ get yout Money was in there last night. That's one of the better. Dj. He's my favorite dj. [00:13:55] Speaker C: Yeah. Tell us how you make your espresso. [00:13:57] Speaker D: They're not gonna be able to hear you. [00:13:58] Speaker C: Oh, wait here. Yeah. [00:13:59] Speaker A: In terms of espresso martiniing, I do two shots of Bailey's. [00:14:05] Speaker C: Two. [00:14:06] Speaker A: Two shots of Bailey's. [00:14:07] Speaker D: Okay. [00:14:08] Speaker A: Okay. [00:14:08] Speaker C: We've got this argument, and that was why we had to do it. [00:14:10] Speaker A: And we got. Where's the camera? We got Tito in his sweater. [00:14:13] Speaker D: You got the liquor? Where's the liquor? Let me take a shot, you know? No, what's. She has some tequila. [00:14:18] Speaker A: Tito has tequila. So it's Two parts Bailey. [00:14:23] Speaker C: I put it back in the fridge. [00:14:24] Speaker D: Okay. [00:14:24] Speaker C: All right. [00:14:24] Speaker D: It's okay. [00:14:25] Speaker A: Two parts Bailey's. [00:14:26] Speaker D: A shot of vodka. [00:14:28] Speaker A: One shot. [00:14:29] Speaker C: We gotta listen. We listen and we don't judge. [00:14:32] Speaker A: Right? We listen and we don't. [00:14:33] Speaker B: Just. [00:14:35] Speaker D: The dress is hidden, though. This is a nice dress. Yeah. Yeah. It's a nice dress. [00:14:41] Speaker A: Thank you. Oh, swerve in the corner. I told. Listen. Y'all like the song. [00:14:49] Speaker B: Oh, you know what you did make one shot Kahlua. You made espresso martinis on cream Christmas. [00:14:54] Speaker A: Yes, I did. [00:14:54] Speaker B: You did. [00:14:55] Speaker A: I remember that started. [00:14:57] Speaker C: We made them again. [00:14:58] Speaker A: I made eggnog on. [00:15:02] Speaker D: On. [00:15:02] Speaker A: No, for. For my sister's friends. Give friends miss. I did eggnog espresso martinis, and I dipped the rim in chocolate and then dipped it in peppermint like candy cane. [00:15:13] Speaker D: I also feel like I'm partly the reason why espresso martinis are so popular. [00:15:16] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:15:17] Speaker D: Like, let's be real, like, before I. No, were they. Were they this mic, bro? Were they this popping? [00:15:27] Speaker A: No. [00:15:27] Speaker C: First of all, I said the same thing about myself before I met you. [00:15:30] Speaker D: Okay? You cannot. [00:15:31] Speaker A: You. [00:15:32] Speaker C: No, no, no, no, no, no, no. [00:15:33] Speaker A: Okay, wait. Last ingredient. Last ingredient. No. Last ingredient. [00:15:39] Speaker B: Yeah, that was like. That was like. What do they call, like, real dirty Spanish right there? [00:15:44] Speaker A: Poquito. [00:15:45] Speaker C: Let me. [00:15:46] Speaker D: We almost had a moment. If he was Hispanic, that would have been something special, because I am. [00:15:52] Speaker A: Shaky. Shaky. Shaky. [00:15:53] Speaker D: Shaky. I'm foreign. [00:15:55] Speaker A: Is crazy shaky. Okay, we got 2 parts Bailey's, 2 parts Iced Coffee, one shot of vodka, one shot of Kahlua, which does have rum in it, by the way. [00:16:06] Speaker C: Fair. [00:16:07] Speaker A: Okay, so we gonna dip our. [00:16:10] Speaker D: Yeah, put the mic in front of your lips, girl. Oh, she has it. Okay, okay, okay, okay. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. [00:16:15] Speaker A: So we got. We got coffee, and we got s'mores icing, and we got marshmallow fluff. So do whatever your guys's hearts desire. [00:16:24] Speaker C: All right? [00:16:27] Speaker B: So if I'm gonna test it, I don't want. I don't want no marshmallow s'mores. Yeah, give me whatever else. [00:16:34] Speaker C: You're supposed to taste it how she presents it to you, because we're all going to present it. [00:16:37] Speaker B: Yeah, you're gonna. [00:16:38] Speaker D: How's he gonna taste it? You're gonna put his lips on it. I'm gonna make three espresso martini with a. With a. With a sprinkle rim is crazy, bro. [00:16:50] Speaker A: Is this your espresso? [00:16:52] Speaker D: I'm the king of this. I'm trying to tell y'all. What's going on. [00:16:55] Speaker A: But I'm. But I'm the queen. [00:16:56] Speaker B: It's the ass I gotta make. [00:16:58] Speaker D: Hold on. Did the king appoint a queen? [00:17:00] Speaker C: I don't need you to appoint. [00:17:01] Speaker D: First of all. I do. I did not. First of all, I did not appoint no queens. [00:17:05] Speaker A: The queen since before you stopped by the royal. [00:17:09] Speaker D: Maybe a jester I don't know about. [00:17:13] Speaker C: Is a lot, but, like, I don't. [00:17:15] Speaker A: I didn't need it. [00:17:15] Speaker C: Like, that's crazy. But anyways, that's why we're settling it this way, because we just going to taste and tell you for me, I respect it because I be on that. I be obsessed with. [00:17:26] Speaker D: The king does not approve. Okay, well, I don't really give a. Oh, mean. [00:17:31] Speaker A: It's not me that went. [00:17:32] Speaker C: You know what's crazy? [00:17:33] Speaker A: Zero to a thousand. [00:17:34] Speaker C: He said. [00:17:34] Speaker D: I said. [00:17:36] Speaker C: Hold on. [00:17:36] Speaker D: No, I'm sorry. I ed you on. You're right. [00:17:38] Speaker B: You're right. [00:17:38] Speaker D: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Black 1. [00:17:40] Speaker C: Let a man say I don't approve, and then that's not mean. But then when I say I don't give a. That's mean. Crazy. It's all. It's all. It's all fun. [00:17:48] Speaker D: And until the rabbit got the gun. [00:17:50] Speaker C: Oh, it's all just. We. [00:17:52] Speaker A: Okay. This is my presentation. Yeah, tell them, everybody. [00:17:56] Speaker C: That's cute. [00:17:57] Speaker A: We have the marshmallow fluff rim with the sprinkles on top, and we got the real coffee beans in there. I'mma. I'mma keep this one. And I'mma give y'all these little sippy sips. Yeah. [00:18:10] Speaker C: I've been waiting for this all day. [00:18:11] Speaker A: Forgive us. On the cups. I did bad. [00:18:14] Speaker C: It is what it is. Everybody gotta get one. We're gonna taste it, and I'll get ready. [00:18:20] Speaker D: As long as I get lit, I'm all right. [00:18:22] Speaker C: Let's air. Cheers. [00:18:23] Speaker A: Oh, sorry. Cheers. I would like to make a personal cheers to the new album that is about to come out this year by Mr. Air the Prophecy, in collaboration with God Damn It Dupree, featuring cause and Big Eve. Okay. Advertisement over. [00:18:43] Speaker C: Cheers. [00:18:45] Speaker B: Thank you. [00:18:51] Speaker D: He gotta go first. What you think? [00:18:52] Speaker C: Yeah, you go first. [00:18:53] Speaker D: Oh, he double take. [00:18:54] Speaker A: Oh, I ate the coffee bean. [00:18:57] Speaker C: It's okay. [00:18:58] Speaker D: You chewed a coffee bean? [00:19:02] Speaker C: I heard that. [00:19:03] Speaker A: I thought it was just sprinkles. Then it tasted like coffee. [00:19:06] Speaker D: And you took it down. That's my type of girl. She took that straight down. Oh, my God. [00:19:16] Speaker B: I'm be honest. I think you should have did maybe like half a shot. Of the Kahlulas. I think maybe you should have did half a shot of Kahlula or something. [00:19:24] Speaker C: But this is her. [00:19:24] Speaker B: It's trying to. [00:19:25] Speaker D: We should. [00:19:25] Speaker C: How she likes it. [00:19:26] Speaker D: We should have held his take until after coffee. [00:19:30] Speaker B: No, Like, I feel like the. The rum in that and the vodka is a little classy. [00:19:35] Speaker A: Okay, okay. [00:19:37] Speaker B: Like, it's decent. The flavor is good. [00:19:39] Speaker A: But we have rum Chata. [00:19:41] Speaker C: I would say similar to my espresso martini, except I don't like my espresso martini this sweet. I like it dark with just a shot of Bailey's for a little bit of cream in it. But I don't like it sweet. But I know you like your. And this is good. I ain't gonna lie to you. It's still hitting, period. It's still hidden. [00:19:56] Speaker D: Okay. [00:19:57] Speaker A: Okay, King. [00:19:58] Speaker C: Yeah, go ahead, King me. Go ahead, King. [00:20:01] Speaker A: Pinky's up. [00:20:02] Speaker D: Now, I've had. I've had. Yo, give me the main camera. Give me the main camera. I've had. I've had thousands, hundreds of thousands espresso martinis. [00:20:16] Speaker A: Millions. [00:20:17] Speaker D: All around the world. [00:20:18] Speaker A: All around. [00:20:18] Speaker D: I've had them in Japan, I've had them in Dubai. [00:20:21] Speaker B: So if you make top 20 ladies. [00:20:23] Speaker D: I've had them all around the world. Now this espresso martini, I'm not lying right now. This is honest. It takes you on a journey. [00:20:32] Speaker A: Oh, we love an adventure. [00:20:35] Speaker D: First sip. No, I'm being dead ass honest. First sip is very creamy. I like that. It could be a little less creamy, but it's very creamy and I like it. It takes me down. Like this ice creamy coffee vibe. [00:20:48] Speaker C: Have you on ice cream. [00:20:49] Speaker D: Then after, like. Like a roller coaster after, I get the rum and then I get the spike of the vodka. Like, it really. [00:20:56] Speaker A: It's layered. [00:20:57] Speaker D: Pause as it just guides down my tongue. It's crazy. [00:21:02] Speaker A: No, that's good. [00:21:03] Speaker D: No, it's good. I actually don't even want to make mine. I just like, I'm gonna make mine. [00:21:07] Speaker A: But can I make you another one? [00:21:08] Speaker D: I mean, yeah. Jesus. [00:21:09] Speaker A: Please, may I have some more? [00:21:12] Speaker C: It's really good. I'm gonna go together for the rest of this. [00:21:14] Speaker A: I'll make another one. [00:21:15] Speaker C: I'm going to fight down. [00:21:16] Speaker D: Good. [00:21:17] Speaker A: 9.8 out of 10. Beat that. [00:21:20] Speaker C: Also, he's not the. He's not the fudgeing judge. [00:21:23] Speaker A: He's the king. [00:21:24] Speaker D: Thank you. [00:21:25] Speaker A: Now, my type of girl. [00:21:26] Speaker C: Look at. I was going to a higher rating. You always have a 10 out of 10 in my book. Mind you, it's too late. First of all, don't interrupt me when I'm talking. [00:21:33] Speaker D: I'm sorry. [00:21:34] Speaker C: Second of all, I said it was good and it was. [00:21:37] Speaker B: It's definitely some beef. [00:21:38] Speaker A: I wish I gave you guys. [00:21:41] Speaker C: I'm going to give it to. When you give it to me. [00:21:42] Speaker D: Be honest though. Does it not take you on a journey? Like. [00:21:45] Speaker C: No, I. I love everything. [00:21:46] Speaker A: I promise anything actually for me, I'm. [00:21:49] Speaker B: Tasting the rum and same time though, like you're. You're getting it after. But you're more experienced than me with the. [00:21:55] Speaker D: I get what you're saying it do it. Definitely. There's that clash. [00:21:59] Speaker C: Look at my phone. Sip it and tell me. He just like, he just need to relax. It's okay. [00:22:05] Speaker A: This is another layer. [00:22:06] Speaker C: I love that y'all need a close up on her espresso martini because that should look good as. [00:22:11] Speaker A: Like. [00:22:11] Speaker D: I can't. [00:22:12] Speaker A: This is another layer. [00:22:13] Speaker D: I feel like I'm just too old for sprinkles. [00:22:16] Speaker C: That's. [00:22:18] Speaker A: No one's ever too old for sprinkles. I can't do sprinkles anyways. So, like you don't. 10. 9.8. [00:22:26] Speaker C: Everything is a 10 out of 10 in my book. [00:22:29] Speaker A: 9. Okay, per. This is a really good start. [00:22:31] Speaker C: If you fucking pour a fucking. Should we have kilo and I'll still give you a 10. [00:22:35] Speaker B: He could. He can't wait. He looked at you quick. He said, come on, give me it. [00:22:39] Speaker A: No, Kilo not go drink. But Saneha, are you next or Scotty next? [00:22:44] Speaker D: I go next. [00:22:45] Speaker A: So everybody keep their glasses. [00:22:48] Speaker C: Guys, guys, guys. [00:22:52] Speaker A: First of all, you see, like, you don't bite. He's a. [00:22:55] Speaker C: Hey, guys. Everybody, everybody has to stop talking because the king is making his. [00:23:00] Speaker A: The king is making his. [00:23:01] Speaker C: So everybody see, like stops talking, right? Because you got to be quiet. [00:23:05] Speaker D: Solomon did not come in here with a king. A king crown. Remember that? How many episodes ago is that? [00:23:09] Speaker A: My crown is always on. This is a really. If you want regular Bailey's, that one's espresso cream flavor. [00:23:16] Speaker C: We bought as much stuff for you to get, you know, get creative. But you gotta make it for everybody, so. [00:23:21] Speaker A: And then also so I do wanna. Since it's suburban la, I do wanna shout out to the city of la. Even though we've been going through immense trauma together as a community, I want to shout out my city because it's mine now for really being for each other. Like I've never experienced. And before this fire broke out, before all the fires broke out, I would have never said this. I would never said this. I've never seen community like this in my life. I'm from Florida. I grew. Every other day is a hurricane a disaster. What? Go ahead, go ahead, speak your truth. [00:24:08] Speaker D: You're from Florida? [00:24:09] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:24:09] Speaker D: I thought you said my city. [00:24:10] Speaker A: What you mean it's my city now. [00:24:12] Speaker D: And you from Florida? [00:24:13] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm Legal Queen la. See, what's your point? [00:24:16] Speaker B: He just explained that how niggas treat him so. But you get to do that. [00:24:20] Speaker D: But here's the hypocrisy because these. But then they'll let somebody come and do Jake Paul and all these. [00:24:25] Speaker C: Yeah, but it's one thing if she's going to say something negative about la, she's saying something I didn't even Florida. [00:24:29] Speaker D: And say this is my city is. [00:24:31] Speaker A: And guess what? And guess what? I've been here for five years and my name is Legal Queen la. And I will fucking stand on it. [00:24:40] Speaker D: That is. That be the problem. [00:24:42] Speaker A: Tell me how can you move to. [00:24:45] Speaker D: Our city and just take, take it? [00:24:48] Speaker A: Because I did. [00:24:49] Speaker D: Nigga said I've been here for. That's a transplant's favorite thing. I've been here. I've been here for eight years. [00:24:53] Speaker A: I don't care. I'm here, I work here, I'm licensed. Only here. My entire career, my entire adult life began in Los Angeles. The only place that I am licensed to have a career is here. [00:25:11] Speaker D: But. So you can't say it's your city. That's. [00:25:13] Speaker A: But it is now. No, it's my home. [00:25:15] Speaker D: Live here. [00:25:16] Speaker A: It's my home. [00:25:17] Speaker D: You, you operate. [00:25:18] Speaker A: It is my home. [00:25:20] Speaker D: It's your home. [00:25:21] Speaker A: So it's my city, right? [00:25:24] Speaker D: No. [00:25:24] Speaker A: Yes. [00:25:25] Speaker D: No. [00:25:25] Speaker A: Yes. [00:25:26] Speaker D: No. [00:25:27] Speaker A: Yes. I'm not even going to get to compliment my city because he just took. [00:25:31] Speaker C: It away with the verbiage. [00:25:33] Speaker A: I was, I was talking about community and being there for each other. Now he's trying to tell me I'm. [00:25:37] Speaker D: Not a part of it. [00:25:38] Speaker C: And I also hear where you're coming from. I'm from New York, so I'll always drag New York as my city. I will never drag LA as my city. [00:25:43] Speaker D: That's what I'm saying. [00:25:44] Speaker A: I'm from Florida. [00:25:45] Speaker D: I can't. [00:25:45] Speaker C: No, not as Florida is your city. I don't know. Never jack anything else but same. [00:25:51] Speaker D: I fail geography. That's your. [00:25:54] Speaker C: But when you. [00:25:56] Speaker D: That's your whatever the, your city, state, whatever. [00:25:59] Speaker C: She gives a lot to this city. Even does every single day. And she lives. [00:26:03] Speaker A: And I, I only, I get where she's coming from. I, I only work. [00:26:06] Speaker D: You live in Miami, right? [00:26:07] Speaker C: The he lives. [00:26:09] Speaker A: She lives here. [00:26:10] Speaker C: Wrong. [00:26:10] Speaker D: You live here. [00:26:10] Speaker C: I don't know what the you talking about. [00:26:12] Speaker D: Wrong. My bad. You right. [00:26:14] Speaker C: No, I live here. I'm from New York. [00:26:17] Speaker A: Make your. Make your teeny. Let me finish talking about my city. [00:26:21] Speaker D: I can't sit on this pod. [00:26:23] Speaker C: He's upset you over here. [00:26:24] Speaker D: This is my city. I get ate up in the comments for like this. I gotta. [00:26:29] Speaker A: And we spoke on it. And they can eat me up too. [00:26:32] Speaker C: Miami is crazy. Let's talk about what the. Where the you got that from. [00:26:37] Speaker A: So anyways, back to the point of the story. [00:26:40] Speaker C: Yeah, tell me. [00:26:41] Speaker A: I've been growing up in natural disasters all my life and no one ever gave a damn about how their neighbor is doing. [00:26:48] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:26:49] Speaker A: The amount of donations, the amount of. Of go fund me's. The amount of. Of just love that has been pouring out me and air with Tuan to the club to collect donations and sort for hours through clothes and pack boxes and. And waters and food and all of these things and change the entire club night into a volunteer and donation hub to then support the community. You know what I mean? Like where they don't do that anywhere else. [00:27:26] Speaker C: I've never even la really banded together for real. I'll give him that. That was the best. Like I was like, exactly. [00:27:33] Speaker A: It made. It made me feel so good because I'm not gonna lie, like two. Maybe two days into like the beginning of the fires. Like I really had a mental breakdown. [00:27:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:27:43] Speaker A: And I didn't understand why. I didn't really know what I was feeling. But then I keep seeing everybody's posters. Like everybody's feeling this. I'm not wrong. I'm crying. I'm hurting. And then when I went to go volunteer, I put like five. Five bags of. Of clothes together, two bags of food, all this stuff. And then I went to volunteer and see all of the people out there. And it healed me. It poured. It filled my cup back up. Y'all ain't shit. [00:28:11] Speaker D: Did you really cry? [00:28:11] Speaker C: Wait, I was going to say to you. [00:28:13] Speaker A: I know she. Did you guys not see my story? [00:28:15] Speaker C: What I was going to say to you in response to this. He made me laugh. I'm telling you what I said when I saw. [00:28:19] Speaker A: I am an empath. [00:28:20] Speaker C: Yes, I am an. I was about to comment on that. When I. [00:28:23] Speaker A: Can you shake it, baby. Okay, so shake it, baby. [00:28:27] Speaker C: What I was going to say before I laughed very rudely is that I saw your story and when you were donating your whole closet, I was like, this is what it looks like. When L. A bands together, right? No matter where you're from, whatever your argument is, amongst each other, whose city is who city, it doesn't matter. Like, the fact that everybody's coming together. I even know people in New York had a whole clothing job. [00:28:43] Speaker A: Yeah, I saw that. [00:28:45] Speaker C: It's great to see humanity, like, band together to, like, take care of each other. At the end of the day, that shit makes me fudgeing. [00:28:49] Speaker A: Have faith and shit. Yeah. [00:28:50] Speaker B: Even to see, like, Mexico and Canada come over to assist us. Like, especially, like, with all the, like, political stuff going on with those. [00:28:56] Speaker C: I shook it. [00:28:56] Speaker B: I thought that was dope. [00:28:58] Speaker C: You're welcome. [00:28:59] Speaker A: So. [00:29:01] Speaker C: No, you did great, Ash. And you're. [00:29:02] Speaker A: You. [00:29:03] Speaker C: You're exemplary. And I. I always did. [00:29:05] Speaker A: And honestly, like, really, Really, I. I, obviously, I met you most recently, Scotty, but people in this city, this city, some of them don't even know my name. They just know Legal Queen la. Like, they don't know my name is Ashley. They just know I'm Legal Queen la. You know what I mean? So I'm a stand on it. Oh. [00:29:27] Speaker C: A question I have for y'all, both y'all, that I think applies other new cup. I think this applies to both y'all. [00:29:33] Speaker A: Yes. [00:29:33] Speaker C: Is like having a social media brand, for example, whatever that may be, whether that's your person or a meme or whatever the it is. Right. Whether it's a business, whether it's a brand, whether it's your whatever. How do you feel? Like, it's the experiences of, like, having a social media brand that's different from you as a human being. You feel like your personality is able to shine through. Girl. A lot of misconceived shit. That's different pages. [00:29:59] Speaker A: That's a great question. And I want to ask each other. I want to ask. [00:30:02] Speaker C: Yeah, that's what I'm asking. I want both of y'all, because I think you have very different brands. But I feel like the experience may. [00:30:07] Speaker A: Be, for me, it's a little bit more difficult because I'm living, like, not necessarily a double life, but like, a double. You took your seat, brand. Because I'm an attorney, but I'm also a bad bitch. For me, I'm a manager, but I also am a podcast host. Like, I have so many different things, and I've been talking with one of my friends who really knows, like, social media and stuff, and he was like, you got to, like, break it up. You have to have a podcast page, a lawyer page, a personal page, but that's too much a lot, you know? Yeah. Yes. You don't feel like it's because I have a podcast page in my. My actual page, and I do have a law firm page, but I deactivated that because it's just too much. [00:30:56] Speaker D: Where. [00:30:57] Speaker C: Yeah. We. [00:30:58] Speaker A: That one. [00:30:59] Speaker C: And I want to hear what you're saying, too. [00:31:00] Speaker D: And I'm gonna. [00:31:03] Speaker A: Cheers. [00:31:04] Speaker D: Can I get a caveat before you guys taste it or. [00:31:06] Speaker A: Yes. And cheers to your city. [00:31:12] Speaker D: You know I got theme music, right? [00:31:13] Speaker A: Okay, first of all, hear me. [00:31:15] Speaker D: Hear me. [00:31:16] Speaker A: The. The real star is my son. Let's acknowledge it. [00:31:19] Speaker C: Thank you. [00:31:20] Speaker D: I told you I was a drunk. So as y'all taste these. I'm not drunk. I'm a drunk. [00:31:24] Speaker A: So s gonna like this because you probably made it how she makes it. [00:31:28] Speaker C: You need see that video. [00:31:29] Speaker B: Honestly, I'm. I'm gonna say something before I drink this because, like, I'm. I'm gonna give a lot of little respect to what he did. He did. He played it by eye. I was doing all the measurements, so I'm like. I don't know what I'm getting into, but I'm just. Okay. [00:31:42] Speaker A: I take that sprinkle of this, a dash of that. [00:31:45] Speaker B: Hey, you know what? [00:31:46] Speaker C: Crazy. [00:31:46] Speaker B: You know what? [00:31:47] Speaker D: My bad. [00:31:47] Speaker B: My bad. [00:31:47] Speaker A: Why is the music. Wait. [00:31:48] Speaker C: It tastes like coconut. [00:31:50] Speaker D: This is like a. I got. [00:31:51] Speaker C: Why this got some coconut in it? Who put coconut in this? [00:31:53] Speaker A: Did you use ramchata? That's what I taste. [00:31:57] Speaker C: Because I was like, I taste a little coconut. [00:31:58] Speaker A: That's what I think. [00:31:59] Speaker D: No, no, that's not. That's not rumchata. [00:32:02] Speaker C: That's birds. That's coconut. Myself and put it in the drinks from Chata. [00:32:06] Speaker D: That's love. I put love in that. [00:32:10] Speaker A: We love you too. [00:32:11] Speaker D: You're welcome. [00:32:12] Speaker C: Okay, see, that's why. That's why I don't. [00:32:14] Speaker A: I would call this. I would title this coconut cream espresso martini. [00:32:20] Speaker D: Okay, I'll take that. [00:32:21] Speaker C: It do taste good. I'm gonna give it to you. [00:32:23] Speaker D: Okay. [00:32:24] Speaker C: I would call mine if somebody served this to me at a bar. If I ordered an espresso martini, I would appreciate this, and I would like it. [00:32:32] Speaker A: And I would call mine a wedding cake espresso. Yeah, I got some, like, cookie, like, icing. [00:32:38] Speaker C: Yeah, is good. [00:32:40] Speaker A: So we got wedding cake espresso martini. We got coconut cream espresso martini. What is. What is Missy going to put together. [00:32:49] Speaker C: The way this is tasting? [00:32:50] Speaker A: This is just going to be a classic espresso martini, right? [00:32:52] Speaker C: No, it's not that. I just feel like I'm going Kill y'all by accident. [00:32:56] Speaker A: I will let you do whatever you want. [00:32:58] Speaker B: I think I've had had enough. [00:33:00] Speaker D: It sh. Go. [00:33:01] Speaker A: He said. [00:33:01] Speaker D: He said I had enough. [00:33:02] Speaker C: I want to. I want Asha to finish. [00:33:04] Speaker D: Yeah, I want to talk about that. [00:33:06] Speaker C: I want to finish what you're saying about Br versus, like, your. Yeah, it's hard, and I want. It is hard to say about that, too. [00:33:11] Speaker A: It is hard because. And then you mentioned another thing, like, misconceptions about me and about you, and I want to, like. I want to ask, like, a little thing, like, if you didn't meet me, like, through this podcast, like, what you would think of me from going on my platform, like, because I've gotten some interesting answers to that this past couple of weeks. You don't think I'm a bitch. [00:33:36] Speaker D: Your whole thing is, like, you're, like. From what I've seen, like, you're a lawyer. Corporate. Corporate baddie. But, you know, you still. You do both. Like, you're like, yo, I can still represent and have clients at a pristine level, but at the same time, I can go to the club. [00:33:53] Speaker A: I'm still me. [00:33:53] Speaker D: And do my thing. Yeah. That was, like, the whole spiel for me. [00:33:57] Speaker A: That's the thing. Like, and it's crazy, because my ex, that I was in Covid. Relationship with, he. We won't get into it, but he is the first person, and it always stays in the back of my. Back of my head. He was like, you are not your career. Like, you don't have to be inside of that box forever. [00:34:17] Speaker C: It's. [00:34:18] Speaker D: I disagree. [00:34:18] Speaker A: You're not just a lawyer about you. [00:34:22] Speaker D: Not having to be inside your career. [00:34:24] Speaker A: No. [00:34:24] Speaker C: But inside a box of what that is. [00:34:26] Speaker A: Like, I'm just a lawyer, so I can't go to the club. [00:34:29] Speaker C: I can't be cute as a person completely. [00:34:32] Speaker A: Right. [00:34:33] Speaker C: Or do you think you have, like. [00:34:34] Speaker A: You don't have to be boxed into one category? [00:34:35] Speaker C: Because I wouldn't say, oh, no, for. [00:34:37] Speaker D: Sure, but I think. I mean, yeah, definitely. I also just think that, like, at this stage in the game, like, I am my brand. You get what I'm saying? [00:34:44] Speaker C: You are your brand. But I don't. [00:34:45] Speaker A: And I'm like, I'm legal queen. [00:34:47] Speaker D: I've never worn glasses until two weeks ago. It's like, now I work. [00:34:52] Speaker A: But I heard that your glasses don't. [00:34:55] Speaker D: But prior to coming, these made me feel pristine. [00:34:59] Speaker C: As prior to coming to this podcast, if I. It does elevate, like, not your personal page, but, like, your. Your meme page. And meeting you separately Even though I met you one time. [00:35:08] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:35:09] Speaker C: I have very different perceptions because there is a certain depth to a human being that I met versus what I can see on social media. I feel the same way about if. [00:35:18] Speaker A: I just saw him online and I didn't meet because before I met you here, I only knew suburban la. I didn't know the person behind it. So if I went to your page and just saw you, I would just think, like, you're goofy. Like, you're. [00:35:28] Speaker C: It's not that it's not representative of. [00:35:30] Speaker A: You, but I don't think, you know. [00:35:31] Speaker C: Fully define you are as like a human being and a. And like a friend and a partner and a son and whatever the else you are. Feel me? [00:35:37] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:35:37] Speaker D: Yeah, for sure. I mean, we're humans. That's. It's complex. [00:35:39] Speaker A: Your turn. Sneeze. Oh, wait, we got a Racher Martinis. [00:35:43] Speaker C: For real. Okay, wait, let me go first. [00:35:45] Speaker D: No, you go last. I want you go last. I want you go last. Say the best for last. [00:35:48] Speaker C: Go. [00:35:48] Speaker A: I love how she listened. [00:35:51] Speaker C: Don't start. [00:35:53] Speaker A: I would say this is a good 8.9. [00:36:00] Speaker D: Okay, I'll take that. [00:36:01] Speaker C: I have notes, but go ahead. [00:36:03] Speaker B: I'm. I'm gonna say like. So I'm gonna say like a 9. 5. And the reason why. [00:36:08] Speaker D: Let's go, black man. Let's go black man. That's what I'm talking about. Hey, no. Let's go black man. [00:36:14] Speaker C: Would you give Ashley's a nine? [00:36:15] Speaker D: They say we don't got each other's back. You got some back. [00:36:17] Speaker B: There was no. [00:36:18] Speaker A: I'm Write it down. [00:36:19] Speaker B: It got smooth. [00:36:20] Speaker C: You like the coconut? You like the coconut going on. [00:36:22] Speaker B: I don't taste. Taste coconut because I don't like it. [00:36:24] Speaker A: Would you give me. [00:36:25] Speaker C: What'd you taste? [00:36:26] Speaker B: I taste. It's like a cream, but then it's like a bit of chocolate and vodka. [00:36:32] Speaker A: Would you give him 9.5? [00:36:33] Speaker B: 9 5? [00:36:34] Speaker D: Mine takes you on a journey a little bit more than. [00:36:36] Speaker B: Yeah, I feel the journey a little more than the first one. Because it's more. [00:36:39] Speaker A: No, this. Yeah, this is good. It is good. It's a little bit strong for me. That's the only. [00:36:44] Speaker D: It got bite. It has a bite. It has a bite. [00:36:46] Speaker A: Go ahead. [00:36:47] Speaker B: That's like three shots of vodka. [00:36:48] Speaker C: I mean, princess, I could talk now. That's cool. [00:36:51] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:36:52] Speaker A: Oh, look at that. Princess, prince, king, queen, air. [00:36:57] Speaker C: Yeah, that. That royalty room. [00:37:00] Speaker B: Honestly. Because I'm like, where is she gonna go with that? [00:37:03] Speaker C: I already kind of said this. [00:37:05] Speaker D: Hey, no, no, no, no. He with me. [00:37:07] Speaker C: Bro, if somebody brought this to me at a bar, I would with it. If some. If I ordered an espresso martini and someone brought this to me at a bar, I would. [00:37:13] Speaker D: What if I brought it to you? [00:37:15] Speaker C: That's not the question. Can I. Give me a second. So I think it's good. I'll give it a 9. I like Ashley's a tiny bit better, but they're both really good. And that's my last and final opinion. [00:37:24] Speaker A: What's the rate? [00:37:25] Speaker B: Is it the sweetness that you liked a little more than the other one? [00:37:28] Speaker C: No, I don't like sweet at all. I'm gonna kill y'all with my. [00:37:33] Speaker A: You might. [00:37:34] Speaker C: And now I feel like y'all. He just gonna give me a three just because I ain't. [00:37:37] Speaker D: I'm not a hater, bro. I would give it a buck. I'm not a hater. [00:37:39] Speaker C: I'm just with you. [00:37:41] Speaker A: So I have a question that the listeners might want to know about from. [00:37:45] Speaker D: Okay. [00:37:45] Speaker A: Is Scotty single? [00:37:51] Speaker C: He's thinking about it. [00:37:53] Speaker A: That means yes. [00:37:54] Speaker C: He said. Hold on, let me check. [00:37:55] Speaker D: Dramatic pause. Just because. I just wasn't expecting that. [00:37:59] Speaker A: Expect anything on the road. [00:38:02] Speaker D: Damn, I'm gonna be a right now. What does single mean? [00:38:05] Speaker C: Look at Prince. Whatever the. Don't lie. [00:38:09] Speaker D: I. I have. I have, Have. I have women that I deal with in my life for sure. [00:38:12] Speaker A: Okay. [00:38:12] Speaker C: Are you single? Is what she's asking you. [00:38:15] Speaker A: Would you call. Would you call yourself committed in a relationship, whether it's an open relationship, whether it's a poly, whatever. Like, you have a relationship that you are committed to be like, let me call my girl. Or girls. [00:38:29] Speaker D: I think that's safe to say. Yeah, but I like, I'm. I'm. I'm outside 100. [00:38:34] Speaker C: I said that is safe to say. [00:38:35] Speaker A: We outside in 2025. [00:38:37] Speaker D: Because I am. I'm outside. I'm entertaining outside. [00:38:39] Speaker A: It's 2025. We going live. Give me a deal. [00:38:42] Speaker D: But I got people give me a deal. [00:38:44] Speaker A: They passing out deals. [00:38:46] Speaker C: I hear you. [00:38:47] Speaker D: I got people that I care about, like relationships. [00:38:50] Speaker A: Me as well. [00:38:51] Speaker D: With women that matter. You know what I mean? [00:38:52] Speaker A: Like, I love. [00:38:53] Speaker D: It's not like. [00:38:54] Speaker A: Not just with women. With women that matter. [00:38:57] Speaker D: Yeah. Like, people that I'm loyal to in terms of, like, I'll be there if. [00:39:02] Speaker A: You call, if you need. [00:39:03] Speaker D: Yeah. Like, I got your back type. [00:39:04] Speaker A: Okay, valid. That's valid. [00:39:07] Speaker C: What about you? Yeah, we stopping it at this. [00:39:13] Speaker A: Well, there's no ring on my finger. [00:39:15] Speaker C: So what I thought that we should talk about was. I mean, I know you're from here, right? And we're not. [00:39:21] Speaker D: What about your love life? [00:39:23] Speaker C: Don't ask me about none of my. We going to talk about something that. [00:39:26] Speaker A: What's your question? What's your question? [00:39:27] Speaker C: My question is, he's from here, right? You from la? This is your city, as we have discussed. I'm from New York Stars. And I just want to talk about, like, in terms of dating culture, what y'all think about dating in L. A? You, as somebody who's from here, Because I got a lot of pins. [00:39:42] Speaker A: I give it a 0 out of 10 on Yelp. Do not recommend. [00:39:46] Speaker D: Why? [00:39:48] Speaker C: Well, okay, but. Okay. [00:39:50] Speaker A: Why? [00:39:51] Speaker C: No, we don't get questions. [00:39:52] Speaker A: Your question. [00:39:53] Speaker C: I want you to know, as somebody who's from here, this is your city. [00:39:55] Speaker A: And you got to make you. You got to make your martini. [00:39:57] Speaker C: What your opinions are on LA as a dating city in general, not just your experiences, but your overall opinion. [00:40:03] Speaker D: Yeah, I mean, I think it's cool. I think that. [00:40:06] Speaker C: In what way? [00:40:07] Speaker D: I think that people out here are actually dating. You get what I'm saying? I feel like whatever reason I talk to women, and it's like every woman I come across has a boyfriend, but they're just not satisfied with the boyfriend. And so it's just like, iffy, interesting. [00:40:21] Speaker C: Every woman you come across? [00:40:22] Speaker D: Yeah, every time I talk to la, they're like, yeah. [00:40:25] Speaker C: I think there's a satisfaction problem with law school in Los Angeles. [00:40:27] Speaker D: Yeah, I think. I think that the quality of. And I don't think it's just. I think because men and women are. [00:40:34] Speaker C: Loyal in Los Angeles who are from here, because people have a lot of opinions about that. And as somebody who's from here, I'd rather hear your opinion about it. [00:40:42] Speaker D: I mean, it's tough because I don't know if it's just an LA thing, but I just think that the landscape of dating, period, is just a little sticky right now. [00:40:49] Speaker C: I would agree with you. I would agree with you that it's a little sticky. And it's been sticky for as long as I could see it. Not even personally, just to see what the fuck be going on. Even with your homies, with your homegirls, when I be seeing what the fuck be going on, I'm like, damn, this kind of. It's kind of scary. [00:41:04] Speaker D: I mean, I don't think anything that's that crazy. For real. Like, people be cheating and people. Like. That's like normal shit. Like. [00:41:11] Speaker C: No, I. I hear you. That happens everywhere. [00:41:13] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:41:14] Speaker C: So I don't think there's certain there's differences in big cities like New York, Louisiana, Miami. I think there's differences than being endless. [00:41:21] Speaker A: I think there's a Money, it's endless options and transaction. Social media, transactional mentalities, social media, everything is transactional. It's a million options and no one respects anyone else's relationship. [00:41:36] Speaker B: I think it's, I think we don't vet who they do it and you. [00:41:39] Speaker C: Just like what would be the buddy? [00:41:42] Speaker D: I also think that's a very transparent way to look at it. Like the people I fuck with is be. [00:41:46] Speaker A: I think that's relationship. I don't mean just in my, my things are really. [00:41:51] Speaker C: She said that in your opinion what would be a proper way vet a woman that you would be dating in your opinion, if you had to do it from scratch? [00:41:58] Speaker B: Got to really be observant like a lot of people. [00:42:00] Speaker C: About what? [00:42:00] Speaker D: Her toes, her everything. [00:42:02] Speaker B: Yeah, like how, how she carry her. You know what I'm saying? What she, I need you to be specific like what she does or what she's trying to do. And, and when she says like I want to be a doctor, like is she the type of person that's oh, I'm doing X, Y and Z to do that or is she like I want to do this. [00:42:16] Speaker C: I don't think I've ever heard someone say I'm going to be a doctor. And like not being pre med. [00:42:19] Speaker D: I've, I've seen people do. [00:42:21] Speaker B: I've seen people do it all the time. [00:42:22] Speaker A: People. [00:42:23] Speaker C: I don't know, I'm brown. We all doctors, I don't know but. [00:42:26] Speaker B: It'S just like, it's just you really got to pay attention to the type of things that they saying and then what they're doing. [00:42:31] Speaker C: So see if your actions match your. [00:42:33] Speaker B: Words and then, and then what else? Don't compare their social media life because I could be the most litany and. [00:42:39] Speaker D: A lot of people turn up the espresso martini though. [00:42:41] Speaker C: Wait, it's my turn. [00:42:42] Speaker A: This is still mine. It's your turn, baby. [00:42:47] Speaker C: Yeah, I gotta make mine before. [00:42:49] Speaker A: So what was, what was the question? [00:42:50] Speaker C: I wanted to ask what his discretionary period is of figuring out who he wants to date. Like he's saying you gotta vet women. [00:42:57] Speaker B: No, but, but women need to do the same thing. [00:42:59] Speaker C: No, I agree, I agree. I'm not saying it gender wise, but since I'm asking you like I'm saying what is in your opinion. You're the vetting process and you said actions matching words, what else? [00:43:09] Speaker B: But I think too also I feel. [00:43:11] Speaker A: Like the first three months. [00:43:12] Speaker B: Where you meet people. Where you meet people usually kind of can make a difference. Like. Like, if you in the club and he in the club coming to talk to you 99 of the time. He go to the club all the time and talk to the next baddie that come through. [00:43:21] Speaker C: But you don't think you could be in the club and meet the love of your life and you're not in the club. [00:43:25] Speaker B: You can. [00:43:26] Speaker D: But this. But this is. [00:43:27] Speaker B: But this is also la. And so that's not the. That's not. [00:43:30] Speaker D: And I'm. Yeah, and you heard the answer I just gave you. Like, it's friendly over here. [00:43:34] Speaker C: So you're telling me if you. [00:43:35] Speaker A: Oh, he a friendly one. [00:43:37] Speaker C: No, Scotty. If you met a girl in the club that you really, really thought was beautiful and you thought she was dopey, y'all talked for real. For real. Not on no hoe. Shit, not at all. You went home and shit. Just on some. You met, you chilled for whatever reason. And you really. With her, it's an automatic no. Because she was in the club. [00:43:52] Speaker D: Yeah, yeah. I mean, more. Not automatic. That's a very. Just like, okay, straight statement. But at the end of the day. [00:43:59] Speaker A: Because I be in the club working, I don't know what y'all be in the club doing. I'm there because I have a job. [00:44:04] Speaker D: What you do? I mean, that's still a red flag. [00:44:06] Speaker A: No, I'm his manager. He's performing, he's networking. We got events, we got shit to do it. Okay. I'm. I'm spinning records. I. I manage a dj. I manage DJ C. Hood as well. Like, I'm. [00:44:21] Speaker D: Yeah, but at the same time, go for. [00:44:23] Speaker B: Man. It's about what they see you doing. Like, because I. I know I'm gonna shake my ass. Exactly. So if I'm standing across the room, you shaking your ass, I'm not gonna look at you like, that's the manager. That's the. And that's fine, whatever. So when I approach you, I'm a. [00:44:34] Speaker A: Person, I'm a double entendre. [00:44:36] Speaker B: Right? But I'm. But to me, I'm. I'm coming for whatever side I saw, you know what I'm saying? Shaking ass. [00:44:42] Speaker D: Right? The per. His perception and how he's gonna treat you is based off of what you're displaying. [00:44:47] Speaker A: I mean, honestly, like, I get. I get misperceived every day. Like, all, oh, you don't look like. You don't look like a lawyer. You don't look like a lawyer. Oh, you're smart. [00:44:57] Speaker D: Do you think it's. [00:44:57] Speaker A: I'm. I'm brilliant, but do you think it's. [00:44:59] Speaker D: Important to give off that imagery? You don't think that's important to. [00:45:04] Speaker A: Yes. Professional, for sure, but I don't think that it is. Is per se, not professional to have fun at a venue where you're going and you're supposed to have fun? You know what I mean? There's. There's a line. There's a line to be crossed. And this is like when I. I don't know who knows this, but I did make music at one time. I'm. We don't do that anymore. [00:45:26] Speaker C: Loved it and we. [00:45:27] Speaker A: But there's a line, like, if I were to pursue that path, I can't be Cardi B and also legal Queen la. You know what I mean? There's a line that takes it too far. [00:45:38] Speaker D: What's the line? Where's the box? [00:45:39] Speaker A: That's hard to define. [00:45:41] Speaker B: Vodka. [00:45:41] Speaker A: That's very hard. [00:45:43] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:45:44] Speaker A: Because. Because my line could be way further back than your life. You know what I mean? [00:45:49] Speaker D: It's subjective. [00:45:50] Speaker C: Oh, this is. [00:45:51] Speaker B: This is poured in here. My final product in this plastic one. [00:45:56] Speaker A: The plastic one's more in the cup. But. And then. And then as far as, like with dating with me, I feel like where I go wrong is I'm. I'm an. I'm an avid supporter of the Y N community. [00:46:09] Speaker C: Sexy. [00:46:10] Speaker A: Yes. [00:46:11] Speaker C: On top of everything, I'm an avid. [00:46:12] Speaker A: Supporter of the Y N community and as a. [00:46:15] Speaker D: What you mean you like. You like young? What are you saying? [00:46:18] Speaker A: That's exactly what I just said. [00:46:20] Speaker C: I said what I said the day going. [00:46:22] Speaker D: But this at the end of the. [00:46:24] Speaker C: Day, the day going to end. [00:46:25] Speaker A: And apparently I am now referred to as an obvious. [00:46:29] Speaker C: And I don't want to hear they. [00:46:31] Speaker D: Say the Y N's love the OB. [00:46:32] Speaker A: And Do you feel me? [00:46:34] Speaker D: No, but timeout, though. What do you mean you like Y N's? You like youngies with, like, shiesties on and like that. [00:46:40] Speaker C: Like, what are you. [00:46:43] Speaker D: What are you saying? Shiesty masks and skinny jeans? Is he cute in the ugly Balenciaga? [00:46:50] Speaker A: Is he over 6 foot? Like, I mean, like, there's a lot of factors that play into this, but, like, maybe. [00:46:56] Speaker D: Oh, my God, you like them too. [00:46:59] Speaker C: No, no. [00:47:01] Speaker D: What are you saying about her type? Hold on. [00:47:03] Speaker A: And first of all, she not an ob. She not an ob. I'm ob, but don't put me in. [00:47:07] Speaker C: A group with somebody just because I'm the only other female in the room that's crazy. I put you in a group with. [00:47:12] Speaker A: Him just because he said something in the mic, babe. In the mic and period. Make your drink. Make your drink. [00:47:22] Speaker D: Are you crying? [00:47:24] Speaker B: I see a tear for sure. [00:47:28] Speaker D: Are you crying? [00:47:30] Speaker A: She says she really don't like the Y N's. She's offended. [00:47:34] Speaker D: I don't like no Y N. I. [00:47:35] Speaker A: Don'T want one of them. [00:47:37] Speaker D: I'm confused, though. I've never heard nobody say they like. [00:47:42] Speaker A: Y N. I know plenty of people that like yns. [00:47:45] Speaker D: The whole point of being a man, being younger. [00:47:49] Speaker C: The whole point of being a man and get it. [00:47:51] Speaker D: And older niggas taking your girl because you had to wait in line and work your way up. The whole point is so a young can't compete with me. And then you gonna tell me you, like, make your dream young. [00:48:03] Speaker B: Ninja. [00:48:05] Speaker A: A young ninja. [00:48:06] Speaker C: But that's just a broad category. [00:48:08] Speaker A: You haven't heard people saying, yn. Get closer to Mike, buddy. [00:48:12] Speaker C: Under the certain age can fit my category. [00:48:14] Speaker A: Anybody under, I would say, like, right now. Today, Like, I would. [00:48:18] Speaker C: Right now. I could be in that category. [00:48:20] Speaker A: You are automatically a Y n if you're 19. I would say under 25. I wanted to know 25. [00:48:26] Speaker D: Are you talking about the age or are you talking about the stereotype of, like, the sheisty mass Y? [00:48:32] Speaker A: Well, when I define a YN, that just means young, like 25 and under. [00:48:36] Speaker D: Why you like. Why you like them young? [00:48:37] Speaker A: Well, I have a lot of reasons, but my dad is only 16 years older than me, so I think it's strange for me to date people that are older than my dad or my dad's age. I think that's weird. [00:48:49] Speaker B: I'm eyeballs over there. [00:48:51] Speaker A: But I also. I'm a very motherly, nurturing human. Like, I. I raised my mom and all my siblings. So it's just like, you like, come here, baby. Lay on my titties. [00:49:01] Speaker C: You like, I don't know. [00:49:02] Speaker B: But the thing is, let me take care of you. I called him like, here, you put. [00:49:06] Speaker D: That in my cup. [00:49:07] Speaker A: Because, yeah, you know. You know, J. Cole says don't save them. She don't want to be saved. I'm over here. I'm over here saving. Saving my sons and shit. [00:49:18] Speaker B: But do you pay for that? They're always backpedal. Cause they can't do enough. [00:49:23] Speaker A: And then you realize that, right? But it's a lot of people my age that don't do enough. It's a lot of people older than me that don't do enough. I have dated older men I have dated older men. They're just as dumb as the yns. [00:49:37] Speaker D: What do you guys think that as women you bring to the table. That's a good question. [00:49:42] Speaker A: That's a great question. Maybe. Did you make your drink? Is it done? [00:49:45] Speaker C: It's strong and you're going to hate. [00:49:46] Speaker A: It's fine. Let's taste it. I'm not. Because we have probably about 10 more minutes. [00:49:50] Speaker D: Maybe. [00:49:50] Speaker A: I am so. Exactly. I am the table. SO one. [00:49:55] Speaker D: You know, you got red flags. You know that? [00:49:57] Speaker A: And I would love to hear them. I want to hear them. SO one. I am. We obviously know the obvious. I'm an attorney. I have a career. I'm successful. I support myself. I'm independent. I don't need anything from anyone. [00:50:11] Speaker D: Do you listen? [00:50:12] Speaker A: Yes. [00:50:13] Speaker D: Do you know how to quiet. [00:50:14] Speaker A: Yes. In a relationship. [00:50:17] Speaker C: Asking questions. [00:50:17] Speaker A: Right. In a relationship. And if my best friend was here and she'll. She'll vouch for me as well. I am a very. I'm a lover girl. I am a very submissive young lady. But it depends on you. [00:50:32] Speaker C: Yeah. For the right person. [00:50:33] Speaker A: It depends on you. Like if. Because I. Like. This is. This is where my interests are conflicting. Because I do like Hawaiian. But I also like decisiveness. Like, if you can lead me. I would love that. I would love to kick my feet up because I never do. [00:50:52] Speaker D: You got white toes. [00:50:54] Speaker A: And do. Okay, listen. My life could be in shambles. My entire house could be on fire. But my toe's gonna be done. You feel me? [00:51:00] Speaker D: White toes are very important. [00:51:01] Speaker A: You feel me? [00:51:02] Speaker D: They have to be white. [00:51:03] Speaker A: My bank account could be negative. I'ma still find a way to pay for my. [00:51:05] Speaker D: Okay. Hold on. [00:51:09] Speaker A: Because guess what? The Yans ain't paying for it. [00:51:11] Speaker C: Oh, my God. [00:51:13] Speaker B: You look for a wine, it's gonna kill me, bro. Or is that. [00:51:16] Speaker A: I think that's just. I think that's just like an imagination thing. I don't think that exists. They like. They like to try. I. I dated someone recently. [00:51:25] Speaker C: This. [00:51:25] Speaker A: Who is 23, 24. And like, he. He likes to think that he is that. And he can lead. You're not leading me nowhere. You leading me to the depth of hell. You leading me into a cul de sac and revolving door. Right? And that's fine. Maybe you'll grow into it. I don't know. Where's our drinks? The. Are y'all doing? [00:51:51] Speaker C: I poured it in all your cups. They're just. [00:51:52] Speaker A: Where's heirs? Where's heirs Cup? [00:51:55] Speaker C: I. I poured all of them, bro. But y'all gonna hate it even he thinks fine. I'm sorry. That's the way I like my strongest strong drinks. I was started. [00:52:09] Speaker A: Are you still crying? [00:52:11] Speaker C: I don't know what's happened first. First, no, but the more you said it keeps happening. My eyes just watering. My fault. [00:52:18] Speaker A: So what's my red flags? [00:52:21] Speaker D: You like? Yeah, big red flags. You said you'd be in the club. [00:52:25] Speaker C: What are your red flags? [00:52:26] Speaker D: You'd have to tell me, I think you tell me. [00:52:28] Speaker C: What the I gotta tell you? You're a grown ass man. [00:52:30] Speaker D: I'm blind to my red flags. Probably. I don't know. [00:52:33] Speaker C: Okay. [00:52:34] Speaker D: You had another one that I missed too. God damn it. [00:52:37] Speaker A: I'm loud. [00:52:38] Speaker C: I think she's a huge green flag. [00:52:40] Speaker D: No, I think. I think the Y ends in the club was like, okay, she gotta go. I gotta go. It's just, you know, red flag. [00:52:48] Speaker C: I think that you're very accomplished and very smart, very sure about yourself. And I think that's very threatening for a lot of people. It is hard for a very accomplished woman to find the type of man you're looking for. [00:52:59] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:52:59] Speaker C: Because if you want a man to lead you they. Men who lead would rather a woman who don't got that going on. [00:53:05] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:53:05] Speaker C: That's not fair enough to you because your intelligence should not be subdued for fun. [00:53:10] Speaker B: That's. That's intimidating for a while. Who's really. [00:53:12] Speaker C: That's what I'm. Okay. And that's a whole nother story. But I'm saying in general. But yeah, that's. I don't think that should be your demographic of what you're looking for. [00:53:18] Speaker A: Because it's not what I'm looking for. [00:53:20] Speaker C: You can I know you. And you could be submissive, you could be sweet. But y ain't what you need. You. You need a grown ass for a For real heard and you be taken care of because you. You're intelligent, you're smart and you can follow. [00:53:33] Speaker D: She gonna enjoy. [00:53:34] Speaker B: Enjoy the journey too. [00:53:35] Speaker C: No, I'm dead ass. [00:53:36] Speaker A: Like I'm not enjoying this anymore. I'm tired. [00:53:40] Speaker C: I hear you. [00:53:40] Speaker A: I'm exhausted. [00:53:42] Speaker C: Kilo is exhausted too. [00:53:44] Speaker B: He was fighting the hell out that sleep. [00:53:46] Speaker A: Is this. Is this the one that you made? Because it's not as bad as you thought. You said. [00:53:49] Speaker C: I mean the way everybody drank it said it was strong as hell. It was a lot of vodka with a little bit of Bailey. [00:53:54] Speaker D: Wow, that's pretty. That's cool. Mixed it with mine, so I get it. [00:53:58] Speaker C: What's your rating? [00:53:58] Speaker A: Give it an 8. [00:54:00] Speaker B: I'm gonna give it give us like 7.8. [00:54:02] Speaker C: That's crazy. Y'all just gonna shoot on my. After y'all gave everybody else lines. [00:54:07] Speaker B: I can't handle this much instead of eight. [00:54:09] Speaker C: Y'all just mad cause it's strong. [00:54:11] Speaker B: It is strong. But you know what though? I didn't. [00:54:14] Speaker C: You gave it a two. [00:54:15] Speaker A: He lied. He lied. [00:54:17] Speaker C: The same exact liar all of y'all put in your. You know what I mean? [00:54:21] Speaker A: He lied. [00:54:21] Speaker D: I should have to because I'm not. [00:54:24] Speaker B: Going to lie even when I'm trying to drink it. Once I breathe in, I appreciate so strong I can feel it in my nose. [00:54:29] Speaker A: So the good news is. The good news is that according to the numbers I won. [00:54:34] Speaker B: Bingo. [00:54:34] Speaker D: It's fitting. [00:54:35] Speaker A: So now I am the actual espresso martini queen Queen. [00:54:39] Speaker B: But. [00:54:40] Speaker C: And you know what? [00:54:40] Speaker B: I'm just say that does not make him the king. Then second of all, he is not the queen. [00:54:44] Speaker C: Third of all, I'm good with the way my tastes. I'll keep going home. [00:54:47] Speaker B: Still got his title. [00:54:48] Speaker A: I guess. You're still the king. [00:54:49] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:54:49] Speaker D: You could be the queen. I've been. [00:54:51] Speaker A: I've been separate households though. Two separate castles. [00:54:53] Speaker C: Why it's like Romeo and Juliet. But they sing this song. I got some just don't kill each other. You feel me? [00:54:59] Speaker D: I got some little proteges. [00:55:00] Speaker A: Some. [00:55:01] Speaker D: Some wine running around the couch. [00:55:05] Speaker A: Our lights skins win every time. [00:55:06] Speaker D: I are light skins. Such a toxic question. Light skinned are never not winning, bro. I've never not won in my life. [00:55:18] Speaker B: You know what does that have to do with. I get put in the light skin category and credit that to your character. [00:55:24] Speaker D: You brown skin. Brown skin are so safe. Crazy. [00:55:27] Speaker C: We like light skin. That's kind of crazy. [00:55:29] Speaker B: Fine middle. [00:55:30] Speaker C: I credit that to be. [00:55:31] Speaker B: And I still try to say dark skinned sometimes. [00:55:33] Speaker A: You're not dark. No. [00:55:34] Speaker B: Yes. It is what it is. [00:55:35] Speaker A: No. [00:55:36] Speaker D: Would you rather be dark skinned or light skinned? [00:55:38] Speaker B: I. I think I'd rather be dark. [00:55:39] Speaker D: Skinned cuz y'all got dark skin. [00:55:41] Speaker A: Y'all get a lot of. [00:55:43] Speaker D: Y'all get a lot on the. On the low. We always be tagging them. It's never. [00:55:48] Speaker A: I feel like. I feel like the. [00:55:49] Speaker D: The. [00:55:49] Speaker A: The time the era that light skins was really in and winning was like the. The ATL era. [00:55:56] Speaker B: Nah, I think. I think the light skinned thing. [00:55:57] Speaker D: I've been winning my whole life. [00:55:58] Speaker B: Y'all be getting hit. But it's more of like. It's like more of like a hater thing because women gonna say like he light sk. That's the first thing women's like, oh, he dark skinned. [00:56:07] Speaker D: Like put it. If you're light skinned. If you're a light skinned black man with sleeves, you're killing the game. [00:56:14] Speaker A: You are, you're killing it. [00:56:16] Speaker D: You can't lose. [00:56:17] Speaker A: You are. [00:56:17] Speaker C: What do you mean by that? Explain. [00:56:19] Speaker D: Just women. It's just certain. Ym yeah, you just, you got splee. You just winning like you own. [00:56:24] Speaker C: In what way? [00:56:26] Speaker D: The woman category. Getting vagina. [00:56:28] Speaker A: So like Jello winning. [00:56:30] Speaker D: Oh, so you got money. [00:56:31] Speaker A: Big winner, big winner, big winner. [00:56:33] Speaker D: What? [00:56:34] Speaker A: Nikki? Ms. Nikki, baby. She been. She been my since. Since love and hip hop. I love her. I love them. [00:56:40] Speaker C: Ran around the block so much, y'all. I'm like, damn. You know, I'm give it to you shorty, because you done had so much flashy surgery. I'm not even mad at her. [00:56:47] Speaker A: I love. [00:56:47] Speaker C: I love hip hop for so many years. [00:56:50] Speaker A: I love her. And she found herself a. Yeah, hey. [00:56:56] Speaker D: I'll be looking at like Jello. What's the. What's the brother mellow like that. [00:56:59] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:56:59] Speaker B: Lamello. [00:57:00] Speaker A: Lamelo's the youngest. [00:57:02] Speaker D: These like 22, 23 with 200 M's. I'll be like, God damn, that is crazy. [00:57:08] Speaker A: They are what you call the Y N's that are women. [00:57:12] Speaker C: You gotta get yourself one M's. [00:57:14] Speaker D: He's like, I probably won't get that until I'm like 50 something. [00:57:17] Speaker A: It's fine. [00:57:19] Speaker C: First of all, even if you don't do that till then, that's fine. And second of all, don't speak that on yourself. [00:57:22] Speaker A: You could get that tomorrow. [00:57:24] Speaker D: Nah, I'm pretty well. I'm pretty well mapped out on like how my working out. I like how my. [00:57:28] Speaker A: I'm going be broke for another 15 years and then it'll kick in. [00:57:31] Speaker D: We not. We not. We not broke. We ain't got 200m. Hey, it's crazy. I was flat broke like not long ago. [00:57:39] Speaker C: Some people don't even dream of that though. So even to have that dream, if. If you have the ID in your head, be like, yeah, in this many. What is broke though? [00:57:47] Speaker A: What is broke though? Does that mean you have money left after you pay your bill? Does that mean you can't pay your bills? [00:57:53] Speaker D: I was dealing with a girl like it was her birthday. [00:57:56] Speaker C: And you. [00:57:56] Speaker A: Oh, you went. [00:57:57] Speaker D: The family. The family went to Disneyland. And like she had to get my ticket and like that's what you. It was rough. Like, it was bad. [00:58:04] Speaker C: I was what I paid for somebody to go to Disneyland. [00:58:10] Speaker A: I took my ex on a $5,000 cruise around the Caribbean. What you mean in Disneyland? [00:58:17] Speaker D: Yeah. I don't care how you feel. [00:58:18] Speaker A: It's how my other ex to do. [00:58:20] Speaker C: You feel like that makes. [00:58:21] Speaker B: But like, but like women. Not about what you did. It's about what. What can he do it himself? That's not. That's really what he's saying. Like. Cuz I've been there a couple years. [00:58:30] Speaker C: Ago and that's your girl and she's like, I got you, babe. You don't got it right now. I got you. That makes you so. [00:58:34] Speaker A: That's like. That's the. Are you okay with not being the bread winner in a relationship? [00:58:43] Speaker B: Y N's are usually not though. [00:58:45] Speaker A: But are you okay? [00:58:46] Speaker B: But as a man, I think when you grow up and you get to a point of like security, you do find that like, you know what, like it's cool for your girl to be a breadwinner, but it's still about. I still handle business. I don't ask my girl for no money. [00:58:58] Speaker C: I don't. [00:58:59] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:59:00] Speaker A: So the thing, the thing that I've. That I've experienced my ex. This was 10 years ago. But I all. I've always been like. [00:59:12] Speaker D: A. [00:59:13] Speaker A: Not better. No, but I've done better. [00:59:16] Speaker C: Oh, yourself. Ability to talk your. [00:59:18] Speaker A: And this was my first love. Like my actual like my real like end all be all. We're on and off for like 10 years. Whatever. I was in college full time. I was working full time. He moved from a different state to move in with me. [00:59:33] Speaker D: Me. [00:59:33] Speaker A: Took him six months to find a job. [00:59:35] Speaker C: You're the first love of your life. [00:59:37] Speaker A: Not the one that passed away. [00:59:38] Speaker C: Okay. [00:59:39] Speaker A: Damn you to my baby. [00:59:40] Speaker C: That's what I wanted. [00:59:40] Speaker D: To pass away. [00:59:41] Speaker A: Yes. [00:59:42] Speaker D: While you guys were together after. [00:59:44] Speaker A: Thank God. Thank God. If we were still together, we were still together. I. I don't know. [00:59:50] Speaker D: I'll be thinking like people who have blissful relationships and lose their partner. [00:59:53] Speaker A: No, seriously, it's up. It's up. And I'm. I'm so thankful to this day that there was a year that passed in between us us breaking up and him passing away. But I showed up to the hospital and everyone from his new life was like, oh yeah, you guys are gonna get married after, after law school, you guys are gonna move to California, you guys are gonna do this, blah, blah. And he's in the bed in a coma and I don't even know these people. You know what I mean? So it really me up. But if we were still together at the time, it would have killed me. Like, I promise you, it Would have killed me. But my other ex, he did not find a job for six months and bought him transportation, got him health insurance, got him food stamps. But I was cool. I'm just like, my baby, live with me. [01:00:43] Speaker C: We cool. [01:00:44] Speaker A: Like, I love him. [01:00:45] Speaker C: I thought when I was younger. [01:00:46] Speaker A: But he was not okay with it. And he wouldn't say that, but it showed and it ate him alive. [01:00:52] Speaker D: I just think that when you're a man, if you ain't got money, you just shouldn't be dating. [01:00:56] Speaker A: You shouldn't be. [01:00:57] Speaker C: I don't think you shouldn't, in my opinion, if you don't mind. [01:01:00] Speaker B: Because expensive to be in a relationship. [01:01:02] Speaker C: Money to pay your bills. You shouldn't date anybody, period. [01:01:04] Speaker A: Period. [01:01:04] Speaker D: That might be different for. I think it's different. [01:01:06] Speaker C: I think it's different. [01:01:07] Speaker A: Men and women, microphone in general, if. [01:01:11] Speaker C: You don't got no money to pay your bills, what the are you doing? Getting dressed up and going outside, talking about, I need a man. [01:01:15] Speaker D: Trying to find a man that could pay for that. [01:01:18] Speaker A: A lot of people. A lot of people opinion. A lot of people will say that that only applies to men. But I feel like it applies to shorties too. Because if you know you can't pay your bills, you behind on your rent, you. You can't get your. [01:01:32] Speaker D: Your. [01:01:32] Speaker A: Your nails done whenever you want. [01:01:34] Speaker C: Exactly. That's what I was trying to say to him. [01:01:36] Speaker A: I'm like, no matter what, I need a man. [01:01:38] Speaker B: I need a man to fix it. [01:01:39] Speaker C: Even in the dating pool, I wish. [01:01:41] Speaker A: A man ever paid for anything. [01:01:43] Speaker C: Not pay to get your nails and toes done every month at least. And pay your bills. Light bill, car bill, whatever the bill. Stop dating on both genders. What the are you doing dating? You can't even pay your bills. And that's not being a hater. It's just, let's figure out bottom priority before we go to the next party. You heard about Maslow's. [01:02:01] Speaker A: Maslow's hierarchy of needs therapist? [01:02:04] Speaker C: There's a hierarchy of needs. First thing is food, water, shelter. You cannot care about this level until you get this level right. So people who are fed have shelter and water. Then they can worry about, like, job partner, this and then. [01:02:18] Speaker A: But it's a lot of homeless, emotional needs, homeless men. [01:02:21] Speaker C: But you. The whole concept of it is you cannot think about the next step until you have a certain thing. [01:02:26] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:02:27] Speaker C: So who don't even have a roof over their head or barely paying the bill to get the roof of their head. Stop trying to date, bruh. Get your together. [01:02:34] Speaker D: What about the idea of group. Group economics. Right. [01:02:36] Speaker C: Group economics is great. So guess what? [01:02:38] Speaker D: So I would need to find a partner in order go live in a. [01:02:41] Speaker C: Well, maybe not go live in a group home. [01:02:43] Speaker D: That's easy to say. [01:02:44] Speaker C: No, it's not. [01:02:45] Speaker D: How easy to say? Go live in a group home. I want a like. I want a like. [01:02:50] Speaker C: First of all, first of all, LA is big on co living. You're telling me you. I. I could tell you yeah, they. [01:02:56] Speaker A: Wanted to be with me in my baby. [01:02:58] Speaker C: The love of your life. And you really was like this is love my life. You would not pull up to her on some. I live in a co living. You would live in your co living. Get your money up. Not because it's like women need your. You need to do this for a woman. But the person you really love. Person that's really your girl really holds you down too. You want to do certain things for men and women are not the same. And I think all people, men and women, like if you in that situation, LA is a big co living space. Go in that co living space and. [01:03:29] Speaker A: Find you a man. [01:03:30] Speaker C: You doing pay your bills and no and there's no judgment on it either. I don't think nobody should look down on people who live in co living. I think somebody who's able to own up to. I'm living in co living because I need to get my money up. More power to you. Get your money still out here in. [01:03:45] Speaker A: LA working and fighting for it. [01:03:47] Speaker C: Get your money up, not your funny up. And I respect you. [01:03:49] Speaker A: Oh, I never heard that before. [01:03:52] Speaker B: That was good. [01:03:52] Speaker C: And then once you do that and you really want to be ready to get married or whatever. [01:03:55] Speaker D: She made me feel like I live in a co living space. [01:03:57] Speaker A: No, she's like. She's like talking at you. Yeah. [01:04:01] Speaker D: Get your bread up. [01:04:02] Speaker C: No, but in general, I wouldn't say that too. As a man, I think a man and woman. I don't think you should be dating if you cannot financially sustain yourself. [01:04:09] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:04:09] Speaker D: I mean yeah. [01:04:11] Speaker B: I feel like some in God all. [01:04:12] Speaker A: Things I would love for a man to solve my problems. But guess what, honey, we gotta wake up from the fairy. [01:04:17] Speaker C: I guess all things are possible but if both of you can. [01:04:19] Speaker A: My daddy raised me to say myself. [01:04:21] Speaker C: Other can create something beautiful. But if both y'all are fucking the sinking shit. The fuck we doing together. But we just singing together. [01:04:26] Speaker A: Sinking together. [01:04:26] Speaker C: We fucking titan that bitch. I don't. [01:04:28] Speaker A: That's a big problem. [01:04:30] Speaker B: My sinking shit might just need the little pieces that you got. [01:04:33] Speaker C: You want to sink with another bitch. [01:04:34] Speaker B: So you bring that over here. [01:04:35] Speaker A: I'm trying to sneak with somebody else. [01:04:36] Speaker B: I've seen. I've seen people. I've seen people really have nothing. [01:04:39] Speaker C: I don't want to sneak with somebody else. [01:04:41] Speaker A: This gives me my hometown. This gives me my hometown. Because it's a lot of crackhead that crackhead together and just crackhead together. And that's what they do. [01:04:50] Speaker B: No, that's true. That's true. But like. And it works people who really have a drive and don't have nothing and somebody else with the same thing. Like I've seen people with zero come. [01:04:59] Speaker A: Together, come out the mud. But I think yeah, I think that's. [01:05:03] Speaker B: But I think. I think you shouldn't make it an active thing. Like I need to actively find somebody general. [01:05:08] Speaker C: Yeah, make sure you have. It's not about I need to be worthy of a person. It's about be worthy of yourself. [01:05:14] Speaker B: No facts. [01:05:15] Speaker C: It's not about make sure you're worthy of this person. Make sure you're worthy of you. And then date men and women. Make sure you're worthy of you. Do you trust yourself? Do you do what you say you're gonna do every day? If I say I'm gonna wake up tomorrow and go to the gym. Build trust with yourself. [01:05:31] Speaker A: Yeah, and I sure don't go to life is you. [01:05:33] Speaker C: If you don't have trust with yourself, what the are you doing dating somebody else? Nothing. Men or women? Yeah, shut the upper. Build trust with yourself and those only people who should be dating each other. You could be struggling together. But do you trust yourselves? Do you love each other? Do you know how to healthily love? [01:05:48] Speaker B: Right? [01:05:48] Speaker C: It's not about money. [01:05:50] Speaker D: She this whole is about money, everything. It's not about this about money. [01:05:57] Speaker C: You that's up to you. [01:05:58] Speaker D: No, this is about money. Don't let them tell you no, this is about money. [01:06:02] Speaker A: So. But I do want to end it on that note. No, I think it's cool. [01:06:06] Speaker D: But without money they don't mean nothing. [01:06:08] Speaker A: Yes, what you said is valid. [01:06:11] Speaker C: Operate like that. [01:06:11] Speaker D: But you said it's valid make a money. [01:06:14] Speaker C: Africa, Jamaica. I'm not from none of the places. I'm from New York. And we don't operate like that. [01:06:18] Speaker A: So I do want to end it on that and bring it back to self love. Because if you don't love yourself, who's gonna love you? [01:06:25] Speaker D: Pay myself. Pay myself handsomely. I love myself. [01:06:28] Speaker A: As you should. Amen. But I want to thank all of you beautiful, beautiful brown people. I got more to say Listen, we can have a part, 2, 3, 4. We can have a. We can have a monthly session. I'm with it at this point. I'm not mad about it, but y'all already know what it is. It's the Royalty Room. We have Saneha. We have Scotty, who runs Suburban la. We have Air the Prophecy, who's dropping a an amazing project this year. Please stay tuned. [01:07:00] Speaker C: And we got Legal Queen la, who's the baddest bitch on this entire planet. [01:07:05] Speaker A: Feel me? Like, subscribe, comment, all the things. Check out Suburban la. Okay? 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